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    Swapping partners in sex life has become a new way of enjoying married life adding more pleasure.

    Supporters argue that we need variety in life (including sex life).

    Talking of food, we do not like to eat the same dish every day, change of dish adds to the pleasure of eating.

    Similarly, in sex life, once the couples talk to each other and understand the feelings of their partners swapping partners can be fun and enjoyable.

    Do not use the phrase 'Wife Swapping'. 'Swapping Partners' makes more sense because it involves swapping husbands also.

    Swapping partners has picked up in India also.

    Any comments

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    I feel, Swapping Partners is wrong.

    It is better to remove the "sexual exclusivity" from marriage. Just like how one can have coffee or tea or go for a movie with someone, sex must be as simple and free.

    why should even one know, who the other is with?

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    eshan,

    Wish it could be that simple.

    Marriage is tied up with many traditional customs and it will take long time to break these customs especially in India.

    It was male dominated and the female partner has no choice.

    The duties of the wife were earmarked and she had to adhere to these customs.

    Now gradually, females are gaining independence from the males since they can now afford the financial aspect of their lives.

    It will take more time for females to lead a life of their choice.

    Techmind48

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    Its all in the mind. Looks like your inner self is not ready yet and you are taking solace behind customs and rituals. Psychologically it sounds like you don't wish to swap your wife, but only wish to have another's wife.

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    Hi Tech,

    Are you ready to Swap your wife for someone's wife ?

    Sanjay


    techmind48 wrote:

    > Swapping partners in sex life has become a new way of enjoying married life adding more pleasure.

    Supporters argue that we need variety in life (including sex life).

    Talking of food, we do not like to eat the same dish every day, change of dish adds to the pleasure of eating.

    Similarly, in sex life, once the couples talk to each other and understand the feelings of their partners swapping partners can be fun and enjoyable.

    Do not use the phrase 'Wife Swapping'. 'Swapping Partners' makes more sense because it involves swapping husbands also.

    Swapping partners has picked up in India also.

    Any comments

    techmind48

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    > sweetsanjay25 wrote:

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    Hi Tech,

    Are you ready to Swap your wife for someone's wife ?

    Sanjay >>>>

    what a stupid question to ask?

    before asking a question why don't you think of possible answers.. what if he says YES.. what if he says "he is getting ready"..

    So are you ready to swap yours , if he says yes?

    if you are not willing to participate, then why bother who swaps and who doesn't.. ?

    It shows that you are ready to swap, if others start swapping... waiting to go with the world.

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    Swapping wife is not bad provided you both are ready for it.....as far as doing it in india is concerned i think we should only do it with people who we are friendly with or who are known to us....I am in favour of swapping for some soft fun...

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    Rare Urban society members who like Swapping partners, please answer the following.

    1. Whats the difference between prostitution (both male & female) and swapping partner if you exclude the money factor used in prostitution ?
    2. If the women gets pregnent then who will the baby belong too ?
    3. If you are using condoms to avoid pregnency then, are you trying not to have babies ? Think, if everyone on this earth does the same then it will be end of the world and there won't be any decendents going forward. Same case is with gay marriages.
    4. What about the respect of a man towards a women and viceversa ? Do you see all women/man as sex objects ?
    5. If Swapping partner is cool then don't you also want to have Incest relation ?

    Regards

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    i think its d damn rubbish n wierd thing...ur wife is nt a sex object....respect d woman whos in relation with u,ur gf or ur wife....n stop all dis nonsense.... :@ :@

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    I would appreciate if you could mind your language. Just becos you are in Singapore it does n't mean that you can command everybody. I dont know when you guys will grow up to learn to respect one another and participate in healthy discussions.

    Sanjay


    eshan wrote:

    > > sweetsanjay25 wrote:

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    Hi Tech,

    Are you ready to Swap your wife for someone's wife ?

    Sanjay >>>>

    what a stupid question to ask?

    before asking a question why don't you think of possible answers.. what if he says YES.. what if he says "he is getting ready"..

    So are you ready to swap yours , if he says yes?

    if you are not willing to participate, then why bother who swaps and who doesn't.. ?

    It shows that you are ready to swap, if others start swapping... waiting to go with the world.

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    Let me resurrect my concerns related to this post again. Rare Urban society members (techmind48 & coolncaring) who like Swapping partners, please clarify the following.

    1. Whats the difference between prostitution (both male & female) and swapping partner if you exclude the money factor used in prostitution ?
    2. If the women gets pregnent then who will the baby belong too ?
    3. If you are using condoms to avoid pregnency then, are you trying not to have babies ? Think, if everyone on this earth does the same then it will be end of the world and there won't be any decendents going forward. Same case is with gay marriages.
    4. What about the respect of a man towards a women and viceversa ? Do you see all women/man as sex objects ?
    5. If Swapping partner is cool then don't you also want to have Incest relation ?

    Regards

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    @ Sanjay, The advise you typed goes for you.. Grow up to hold healthy discussions. Do not ask cheeky questions and open ended question. A question is like a ball, and it can hurt another or bounce back to hurt you.. So mind your Question. If you do not like the topic, then stay away from it. Do not bowl underarm in a field, where professionals are playing.

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    1. Whats the difference between prostitution (both male & female) and swapping partner if you exclude the money factor used in prostitution ?

    WHILE ONE IS PROSTITUTION IN CASH, THE OTHER IS PROSTITUTION IN KIND. DOWRY SYSTEM CAN ALSO BE DECLARED AS CAPITAL PROSTITUTION, WHERE A ONE TIME FEE IS PAID. JUST THAT WHO IS THE PROSTITUTE IN THE PROCESS, IS TO BE NOTED.

    2. If the women gets pregnent then who will the baby belong too ?
    THE WOMAN.
    3. If you are using condoms to avoid pregnency then, are you trying not to have babies ? Think, if everyone on this earth does the same then it will be end of the world and there won't be any decendents going forward. Same case is with gay marriages.

    ABSOLUTELY. BUT WHO CARES? DO YOU KNOW THAT THERE IS SUCH THING CALLED "REMOVING A CONDOM WHEN YOU WANT TO MAKE A BABY".. AND DO YOU KNOW THAT THERE IS NOW "IUI" WHERE COUPLES CAN DECIDE TO HAVE ONE, WHEN THEY PLAN TO. AND YOU KNOW THERE ARE BANKS NOW STORING SEMEN.

    4. What about the respect of a man towards a women and viceversa ? Do you see all women/man as sex objects ?

    WELL UNFORTUNATELY, ONE IS AN OBJECT TO ANOTHER. WHAT ELSE DO YOU RECKON?

    5. If Swapping partner is cool then don't you also want to have Incest relation ?

    HOW DOES IT MATTER WITH A CONDOM?

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    @ Eshan - Sir ji...Your above answers are fine....No further questions to you....

    From above discussion, i m feeling that all the people (Except Eshan) have a slight different information about it. as far as i know....in swapping no one is pushed into the act......its the wish of partners to exchange.......i understand that after swapping it is difficult to retain the previous relationship.... but when you are breaking the social boundaries by indulging in the swapping.....why to worry about another social affair called marriage........

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    The fights here are not physical, but intellectual and it is difficult to get people honest views. There are many who vomit from the scriptures here and just talk from the books, with no experience in life.

    @ashi.. well observed buddy.. In reality the question comes back to the marriage institution itself, for even marriage is one such swap of members in family, where both families get into trouble due to it.

    Actually I was trying to lead the conversation to another family unit.. where couples start getting married to couples and form a larger family unit. If Individuals can get married, then why not couples? where philosophically there are considered to have united as one after marriage.

    then the problem of which couple would be the husband & which couple the wife? hahahahahahaa

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    Human beings evolve into Animals. Animals such as pigs, swap partners and have sex with their own mother. Invites others to have sex with their own mother. Great going philosophers.

    Looking at the future, there will be naked people everywhere, no one will know who their father would be. The father could be one in thousands. Pornography and Prostitution will vanish as everything will become mundane on streets 24*7. Diseases will increase heading to the end of the Human race, gays will be everywhere, Wars for shortage of women(variety), mother having babies from her babies, mother father daughter son having group sex. That's were you are heading too. Life is fashion for you guys, keeps changing like womens clothes from 20th century till 21st century.

    This forum is not recognized by government of any country to call yourself a professional. In order to get educated, almost each and everything you learn will be from books, followed by implementing them in life/work, which it turn becomes experience.

    Couples having sex together is called "Group Sex". Why don't you guys start eating your own pie and crap.

    Stop eating pigs(directly/indirectly).

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    It's good to hold healthy discussions. It would be better for everyone not to use personal abuse.

    As far as the topic is concerned, I think if both the partners are okay with swapping and till the time they're enjoying, it's absolutely fine. Scenario is getting changed nowadays. People who want to be loyal to their partners, great; but if they don't want to, its entirely up to them.
    “There is nothing so pathetic as a bore who claims attention - and gets it”

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    You guys don't see the problem, don't you ? This problem is even worse than the Global warming.

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    You should think on the negative effects on your kids . if in any case they come to know about it .

    Please friends avoid such type of thought which leads to degradation of the mental levels of humans .

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    Hi Improvise,

    I would like to quote Damsel's Words once again " It's good to hold healthy discussions. It would be better for everyone not to use personal abuse. "

    I strongly condemn your attitude and bullying. You may be a great orator / writer and proficient in multiple languages, and also a shakespeare in Ebglish, but dont abuse others in a open forum like this. Learn to be humble. Pride, Vanity and highheadedness will get you nowhere.

    Sanjay



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