I am a working in a well known MNC at a v reputed position. I earn v well.my problem is tht my in-laws can not digest my success in professional world. my mom-in-law is a house wife, she wants that i should do every work with her permission where as I dont like others involvement in my personal life.She is not living with us.
Allthough, she showed tht she is v loving and caring but when the time comes to show her luv and care she just ignore everything, for ex: i m going to be blessed with a baby and she should come to my home to take care of me and earlier she promised me as well but she dint come by saying tht i ll not come to ur place untill u leave the job or will not take leave, however this is not possible for me.
she also forced me to visit to her place very frequently which took allmost 5hrs to reach there, and when i deny she makes nesty comment on me. However, my mom's house is at the distance of 45 min only, she dont allow me to visit there.
She also says nesty things to my husband abt me, which cause a serious fight between me n my husband.many time I also hear their talks and i felt v bad abt all tht.She dont loose a single moment to comment on me which feels me a lots of hate against her.
My husband dont want me to argue with her and ask me to be quiet. I was married around 15months ago, since then i m just listening her comments.
I would also like to mention here tht my 2 sister-in-laws and 1 brother-in-law also make comment on me and my mother-in-law appreciates them, where as my father-in-law is of a very loving and caring and of quiet nature, he dont tell anything to anyone.
my in-laws also make comment on my mothers family, which i cant tolerate and many times i had told them clearly but it always ended up me with tears.
My husband is v loving and caring towards me, he took notice of every problem incurring to me but when the things comes abt his parents either he simply ignores or ask me to be quiet.
Time to time, we also give costly gifts to my in laws, tht time they r v happy but after 2-3 days life become as it is.
I could not understand wht should I do?? neither i could tolerate my in laws anymore or not want to have fight with my husband.
Please help me