Thread: Need a loving parents
Need a loving parents
HI ACTUALLY I POST HERE TO HELP A FRIEND WHO IS IN PHILIPPINES WHOM NEEDING A HELP TO A ONE YEAR OLD BOY AN INDIAN-FILIPINO MIXED WHICH IS THE FATHER IS AN INDIAN NATIONAL WHO LEFT THEM ALONE AND IN PAIN TO MARRY OTHER WOMAN NOW THE MOTHER OF THE CHILD IS STILL SUFFERING FROM DEEPER PAINS AND ANXIETY OF WHAT HAPPEND TO HER LIFE SHE DONT KNOW HOW SHE COULD RAISE IT ALONE SHE WAS LOOKING FOR A LOVING FAMILY WHO CAN ADOPT AND TREAT THE BABY AS THERE OWN RIGHT NOW SHE STILL IN THE STAGE PAINS WHICH SHE DONT KNOW HOW TO ACCEPT AND HOW TO START AND GET OVER FOR HER OBSTACLES GOING TROUGH HER IF ANYONE WHO IS INTERESTED TO HELP MY FRIEND TO EASE A LITTLE OF WHAT SHE IS ENCOUNTERING RIGHT NOW KINDLY EMAIL ME AT email@example.com THANK YOU.
Nothing in this world is impossible.. Now-a-days women are very brave and they handle each every situations bravely.. Advice your friend to be brave.. She can bought up her child.. Don’t let her to leave her child in other’s care.. In today’s world we can believe no one.. She doesn’t have her parents? If not then also there is no problem…
My advice to your friend is:
Leave your past behind.. What has happened that happened.. Now there is no use of worrying about what happened in your past..
Now you have a baby and it is your duty to take care of your baby..
Don’t believe in anyone..
You believed your husband and he left you to marry another girl.. This is the lesson that you have learnt from the person whom you loved the most.. Your trustworthy husband has left you with a baby, then how can you trust others??
If you want your baby in a safe hands, it is you who can keep the baby safe in this world..
There are many Trust’s in this world.. You can seek help from them..
You can approach some homes.. They will provide you job and take care of your baby..
After few months or years, if you feel that you can bought up your child alone, then you can rent a house and live there..
Don’t do the mistake of re-marriage now.. Because just now you have come out of some problems.. Now you won’t have the ability to select a right person..
My request to you is “be Brave and take care of your child.. Don’t depend upon others”..
All the very best for your future..
Mine is same situation.. hubby is a runaway... I have a kid to raise up alone... at times I break down...... though I have a good job... still life and pressures break me down... and I thnk of giving my child for adoption thiking he wud probably have a safe and better future.... but posts like these give some strngth and I start collecting myself to go ahead with life.......
certain times I think of having a nice girl with me who is in pain too so that we cud start living as a family...
Akira.. if u read this.. ask and plan ur friend if she can come to India and if we can live together to share love, pains , happiness......life wud be better atleast away from such sick guys who dont care for their children...
That was a good decision!!! Being a woman, one should not lose their hope and confidence in themselves. @ Akira - Why to give the little one for adoption??? Better you can ask you friend to stand on her own legs. If possible come to India and look for a better job here with Kavita’s Reference.
I think you both have that ability to bring up your kids. Nothing is impossible... Try to come out from the gloomy past and act bravely now to heal yourself.
Try to take a good decision!!!