I have a sister in law who is 27 year old now, unmarried and she stays with my inlaws at their native. At the time of my marriage , she was 24 year old and i 23 year old. She had epilepsy in her childhood and was a spoilt brat even at her 24 year old , she behaved like a child, wont do any household , keeps watching serials and movies . my inlaws now also consider her as a smaill child. I had always fought with my hubby to have a separate house cos I didnt like her behaviour.So we shifted our house and they moved to their native.
1. She is 27 year old now , turning 28 this coming october , unmarried at native.
2. She is not educated because of epilepsy in childhood , don't know even if she completed her 10th
3. My inlaws are looking for high profile grroms for her though she is uneducated and unemployed , they find some fault or the other for all the groonms telling ' he is dark , he is short , he looks old ' and stuff
4. Now my mother in law says her daughter will somehow live even if they die
Now my concern : I just hate my sister in law , her talks , her attitude and childlike nakhras. I had asked mu hubby to talk to her regarding her marriage , thinking of her low profile. But she doesnt seem to understand. She always says she cant do work cos she has headache,back pain, eye pain and what not, but eats well to the core .
I had a love marriage , as opposed to my parents decsison. My parents saw my hubbys sister as liablity and they didint allow me for this marriage. But I convinced them somehow and our marriage happened.Looking at the current scenario, I dont think my inlaws would get her married ever ...They don't advise her or correct her whenever she does something wrong .
I always fight with mu hubby to get her married asap or else she would be a liability for us in the future.
My parents and relatives always criticises me for the decision I took , whenever they see my sister in law.
What should I do ? I have told many times to my inlwas that their daughter;s life is gonna becaome tragedy if she is unmarried, but they are bindass, watches serials and cinemas . enjoying there telling that their daugher couldn't find a suitable match till now
Tell me what should I do ? I am scared thinking about our future with my sis in law as a burden.