> UB wrote:

> As working ladies are too busy in their professional lives and hardly pay enough attention toward their children. Does it really harm their children's development?



hi
never they use to harm the development of the kids
instead they can visualise the life of human being to the kids
but take more time with them than other working parents
present ur active love to them
describe them that u r working to their and the good future of the family
in the way suitable to their minds

My friend, the word mother and harm do not go along. A mother, working or otherwise, can never harm her child. Know the Sanskrit saying - Kuputro bhavati, kumata na bhavati (meaning - there can be a bad son, but never a bad mother).
Most working women have experimented and mastered their own ways of dealing with stressors. Also, majority of women work not because they are career-minded but because they can lend a helping hand financially as well as secure their own future in case of adversities.
A generic question of whether working mothers harm children is too vague, would you like to substantiate your qt with an example?

I am professional mother with 2 kids(6yrs&2yrs) and husband with no parents support here in london, sometime my heart cries when I leave my kids to their school and full time nursery but then i spend my full time before 9am and after 4.30pm with my kids and husband. We have moved close to my office so that I don't waste time in travelling and i have more time for family and its easy for me to manage everything being close to work.

Being professional it helps me to balance between work/life and manage my family more effectively and in better way and my work gives me more confidence to overcome any hurdles of life.

Most weekend we take our kids for outtings and spend quality time with them.

I appreciate those mothers who still take care of kids/family being at home..

Everyone has their own choice in life... try to enjoy it..

Thanks
Beena

No ramesh,
I dont agree. working mothers can always pass on their etics and morals to their children, they only need to balance both work and home. Dont work too much dont be too homely. Give more time at home and less at work. I mean 8 hours a day at work doesnot harm anybody but more than that affects everyone-children,husband and the mother herself. Just scedule your work hours in such a way that you can dedicate most of the time to your children. And take some help from the father too. After all they are his children as well. Both of you can share the work of children. For example, while you prepare breakfast, he can bathe them and dresss them up. While you feed them, he can brush their shoes and prepare their bags, In this way, the kids will get the care of both the parents and even if you are late 1 or 2 hours once in a month, they wont mind. Just dont make the kids feel lonely for your work. Working mothers are not at all bad mothers. It all depends on how you lead your life and how you live according to your routine.

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> rameshraju wrote:

> In the god's creation, every male of the species earns the bread and protects the house, whilst every female of the species keeps the house and feeds the children. Male and female are neither superior nor inferior to each other. If the male does its destined duty, and the female performs its unique duty, the creation is balanced. Infact the duty of a female is much worthy to be praised than that of male.

If Man and Woman follow as per the principle of God's creation, the human society would be golden for ever.



These things which U have written is not as per God's creation, it is as per society creation . its not necessary that only a woman should always sacrifice for each of her wishes.

God means " Ramesh Raju "  All men should follow his principles and treat women as slaves, marry a giril who is 10 years younger, marry a girl who is poorer than him , wear only sarees and traditional clothes, should not speak to men, should not work, but do Padha Puja for their husbands, live in a join family even if the mother in law and Sister in laws ill treat the wife, These are the principles written in the Vedhas and ancient scriptures which our holiness is propagating for mankind's well being.

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> Fidodido wrote:

> Where can we get the book of principles authored by God!!!

Amar

Sanju