Why don't you (both of you , if you love each other ) go through your parents ? I mean at family level? Why don't you talk to your parents , so that they call her parents for her hands for you?

If you think it's too late when you will come to her place then you can make it iver phone. Because you know each other well.

Hi Akhil,

Why are you posting the same problem in different threads and seeking advice after advice inspite receiving so many replies.

Moderators, can i request you to checkthe other threads and delete Akhil's post as appropriate as we are all confused.

Sanjay


> akhil901 wrote:

> Hi friends I am Akhil. My problem is that I love a tamil girl who is currently in hyderabad and I am doing my masters in Australia. I had proposed to the girl a few months back and she said that she does not have any such feelings towards me but she says that I am a very good person and that she would miss me a lot. I love her a lot and I will miss her a lot so I do not want to miss her. I was told by her that her parents want her to get married and that she said ok. Now she is about to get engaged in a month or so. I told her that I can come and talk to her parents but she says that by then it will be too late.

          What I really want to do is to forget her and move on in my life but I am unable to do it. I am not even able to hate her and forget her because she is very worried about me and I also do not want to trouble her by continuously calling her. I am going back to India next month to visit my parents. I think by then it will be too late and she will get engaged. If she does then I cant even go and talk to her parents. Please tell me what I should do. Any elders in the section please sir or madam suggest me the right thing to do. Sanjay if remember you gave me a very good suggestion the first time I posted about this topic. Please suggest something yar I am feeling very tensed.

Please help. Please.