i know i commited a blunder by doubting her. an di am repenting since 2  months..

how can i convince her that i wont repeat it agian..

after our break up when i tried to convince her , she gave me a strange option to wait for 2 yrs and then speak to her parents. but during these 2 years she wont speak to me. out of option i agreed. but i could not wait beyond 2 months as i felt the 2 yrs option to be not practical. i tried a lot by speaking to her friends, but she is in no mood to listen. i am not able to understand one thing how can  a girl who loved me so much , who cant live without talkign to me for 1 hour and cant live seeing me for 1 day spent 2 months with out seeing me, talking to me as i commited a big mistake.

out of irritation i asked her out does she loves me ? she messeaged me that she doesnt love me any more. i asked her out
waht about after 2 years.
she says she doesnt want to sacrifice her life for me by marrying me......

i am not sure whether she will wish me on my birthday which is next month..

one question why is she mesaging me emotional messages, phrases if she doesnt want to continue ..

pls answer..\\

i know my mistake , i dont want tlose her at all...

@ shan....

my post may sound harsh bt i think this is wt could be done.....

probably she does miss u....y dont u go for a open talk with her face to face..u can still do since she is still msging u....u can talk n solve it...tell her tht u r genuinly sory for doubting her n wont do it again.....tht wud make things much clear when u can read her expressions..

gud luck...

Shan,

You are doing a mistake...

A story which is made for you I think...
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

A college boy loved a classmate girl for 2 yrs and in that time he asked her several times that whether she loved him or not..
She everytime said "I don't love u coz u are not my types"

After the college he totally forgot about that girl and some-days afterward when all frnds met they asked how can u forget the Love of you life...
He simply replied "When she said NO I thought of giving a try may be she will love me after sometime but when finally she said NO I was happy coz She lost the one who Loved her unconditionally and I lost the one who never loved me at all"
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

If you understood what I wanted to say then go ahead with your life and don't make a mess out of it...
If she loved u then she would have came to u by now coz Boys are very patient but girls are not at all patient in terms of LOVE and Relationships...
If she loved u she would have came and told u that she can't live without u...

2 yrs is just a way to make u understand that she is not going to be urs forever even if you wait 2000 yrs...

You are repenting what you did but I say u did right as she is like that and when she came to know that u will not be fooled by her ways and one or the other day everything will be clear in front of you she became aggressive and left...

y did she say to wait fro 2 years . was it a excuse....

Hello Shan,

I dont have much to add as Priya and Sweta have already responded well.

You dont keep chasing the girl and show that you are too desparate.  Stop messaging and all contact with her, but before you do that just drop her a mail or a few words like the below.

I never meant to hurt you
the way I know I have.
Your love means more to me
than anything and I'll do whatever it takes
to prove that to you.

Since the day I met you and
your love touched my heart
I knew that my life would never be the same.

Please forgive me for the pain I've caused.
I'll make it up to you every chance I get.
You have my heart and my love forever.

Conclude it with the line that " if you still care and love me, please respond to my message and get in touch with me, or else I wish to say Good bye and wish you the best in life, but I would keep thinking of you and our relationship for the rest of our life.

Love always

Yours ...............


Cheers, Sanjay


> shan30 wrote:

> you asking me to go for open talk , i have tried a number of times asking her to sit and talk , she is not agreeing.

what if she messages me again, what should i do.....

Hi,

I show damn care attitude towards her for some time, would she become curious about me ....what wrong with me , as i dint contact her for long time..

i read it in a article that after break up if the guy happens to ignore her to regain her attention .

will it work for me guys..

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Recently I Had A Break Up Wd My Gf...n Nw She Iz Cumitd Wd Sum Other Guy... She Said Dat I Dint Cared For Her N Dats Y She Left Me..we Were In Relationship For More Dan A Year ..n Nw Dis Thng Iz Hurting Me Badly.. I Kno I Can Nevr Get Her Back ..but Wat I Want Iz To Move On Wd My Lyf Which I Am Nt Abl To Du..am Vry Much Depressd N I Feel Lonely N Cheated...i Want To Concentrate On My Studies But Am Not Able To..plz Sum 1 Help Me To Come Out Of Dis..plz

am tryin my best to 4 get her ..but the fact dat she iz cumitted to sum other guy iz hurtin me..means its lyk  a shock for me ...she made thousands of promises of nevr leavin me n ol dat.. n nw she dumpd me lyk anythng...am vry much depressd now ..i was nevr lyk dis b4..she has taken away all my happiness n charm.