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Dear Sirs, I am just married before 6 months. i am not at all happy with my wife. she insults me every now and then, if i talk to her family to advice her then they also abuse me. i confirmed that she had relationship with other person before marriage. i got chat history from gmail of her. she chats with him after marriage also, that chat history has everything with date and time what all she have with him. she dont like to stay with me, but she even dont want to divorce with me. we have problem with every single thing. can i ask for divorce based on her relations with her friend, she clearly insults me in chats calling me mental and hitlar, and that she want to divorce me and request her friend to marry her. her family also ask me to live beyond my earnings and harash me with that. please sir help me. when can i get the divorce and how. thanks in advance.
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Mr. Rakesh,
Insult means what..??
tell us how she insults u.. Is that what she writes to her BF on mail is insult to u or is that she do verbally to u...
Ek baat ye ki aapko uske Mail id ka password kaise mila... Aur mila bhi to usne diya ya kahin se Hit & Trial laga ke jugada...??
Agar Hit & Trial lagaya to theek but agar usne diya to wo itni bewakoof hai ki dene se pehle ye bhi nahi socha ki agar tumne uski Chat history dekh li to kya hoga...
Dusri cheez yaar tumhari biwi gmail use karti hai aur use ye nahi pata ki Gmail me History delete karne ka option bhi hai... Aur to aur settings me jake chat History Never save ka option bhi hai...
Agar wo sach me tumhe talaq deke uss bande se shaadi karna chahti hai to mana kyo kar rahi hai.. Aur agar nahi dena chahti to fir uske BF se wo kaise shaadi kar sakti hai...
Aur sabse pehli baat wo uska BF hai bhi ya sirf Frnd...
Fir ye bhi ho sakta hai ki tum uspe shaq karte ho aur har baat me rokte tokte ho isliye usne gusse me apne dost ko tumhare liye Mental aur Hitler likha ho...
Ye to har ladki jo apne Pati ya BF ke saamne muh nahi khol pati uske liye apne dosto se aise hi gusse me bol diya karti hain... Mai bhi bolti hoon aur bahot saari ladkiyon ko dekha hai bolte hue...
Aur jahan tak rahi uske ghar walo ki baat to wo kisi halat me tumhe tumhari earning se zyada kharcha karne ya paise dene ke liye harass nahi kar sakte... Aur agar unhe yahi karna hota to wo apni beti ki shaadi tumse karte hi nahi... Kisi ameer ladke ko dekhke usse apni beti ki shaadi karte...
Ab jahan tak rahi Talaq ki baat to wo aapko bilkul mil sakta hai... Par tumhare paas apni baat ko prove karne ka thos saboot hona chahiye... Kisi achche lawyer ke paas jao aur uske khilaaf divorce ka case karo.. Jitna time lagna hai ya jo hona hai ye sab wo lawyer khud hi bata dega...
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she insults me and say bad things about me on my face all the time....initially i thought it might not be a serious thing......but now i think its never going to end.......now i started keeping chat history and also some recording in which she insults me engreyly.....i always try to calm her down........but more i try more she misbehaves with me.....she dont even care for me and only say cruel things about me to everybody in our family.........she ruined my name in all my family.....i just dont want her in my life...i know its not that easy as i said.........
but honestly i dont wanna waste all of my life behind her, i am now facing the other face of life and it makes me very depressed......what if she and her family dont give divorce and keep saying you did all wrong with her......any suggestion how can i protect myself.....
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First of all clear everything then only u can protect urself...
You said that u started keeping chat history.. I don't get it how u started keeping chat history in her gmail account...
Is that ur account OR her account OR you both use a single gmail account ??
But anyhow if it is hers then how can u start keeping Chat History; she can anytime delete it and can clear everything in account from chat to mails to trash...
Now coming about her verbal abuse to u.. Can u tell us some incidents in which she had done this...
Then In front of ur family how can she ruin ur name?? Can u explain coz ur parents and family knows u very well from ur childhood and anyhow they will believe u If they think that u r right but if they have an impression from your childhood that you are like that then only they will believe her... So I don't find ur this statement as a valid point against her.
If you can gv all the valid answers to these questions then I can suggest anything else..
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Yes, what Sweta has mentioned above seems to be correct points against you! I am not just degrading you from your husband's rights but if you only open fully and that too sincerely people like us could share our own educational and/or experiences with you for your own better future benefit, otherwise just by advising you to get a Divorce, we may not be helping you at all but drowning you in your life!!
So be open and always try to think in a Very Positive Manner and Avoid to think about your Dear Wife with a Negative Attitude and we are sure that everything could be worked to be ONLY POSITIVE !!!!
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Thnks Terrance,
Thnks for supporting my Words... ![]()
I don't know what happens to these people but just in simple matters they don't try to solve out; they only asks "How can we get Divorce?"
Some 2-3 days back here on SD only one guy was asking how can he get divorce coz his Wife has Migraine and he is unable to enjoy his married life bcoz Of migraine... What a waste of Law... Every other women (around 80%) in the world suffers from migraine bcoz that is present in female hormones.
I was feeling Angry and laughing at the same time...
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