Hi SD,

Actually you know what's the real problem is... Ur thinking & Attitude...

In each and every line u wrote that her parents and family are villagers and uneducated and ur parents and family are highly educated and cultured...
What do u understand by when u say educated and cultured can u explain..??

Then I would like to ask "You really love her or just bcoz she is very beautiful and smart so u are obsessed with her beauty and so wants to marry her"...???

Tell u a real incident... I left my third BF bcoz he never respected my frnds and insulted my college seniors who always respected me as a real sister and shared everything of thr lives as I am his real sister.. They were Mechanical engg guys and the real gundas of our college and If anyone else would have done that they would have done the worst with him but just bcoz he was my BF they never touched him and so taking advantage of that he always tried to insult them which I was not able to tolerate...
So I clearly told him that "when u can't respect my rakhi brothers and ur own college seniors how can u respect my family which u haven't met yet..."

And you know this thing always hurts a woman's heart that She always loves and respects all in her beloved family & Frnds but the person she loves never respect her family or parents...

If you want to continue this attitude then I think No one will like to help u even if they are ur real frnds...
This is not a problem which will end if she got married to u but it is a problem which will remain after the marriage too and I know for sure u will say it in her front and try to tell her that she is very inferior to u with respect to family and culture... And this will always hurt...

Looking to the scenario uptil now I will ask u to forget her otherwise she will never be happy in her life...
OR
Change ur thinking and attitude first and then go to her parents and ask them for her hand politely with respect as they also have some reputation in thr society...

Always remember as you gv her u will receive back from her... If u respect her and her parents she will do that for u with her full heart... But if u always insult her or her parents she will respect ur parents but then sometimes she will also tend to do the same to u...

And frankly saying, I don't like ur attitude towards her parents and family at all....

See I don't think that only uneducated people do these caste and all discrimination.
I see that u and her parents were linked earlier but now bcoz of the caste and all..

If you have already mentioned this thing earlier then I think I would not have gvn u so much of a lecture..
Right now the only thing u can do is go to her parents house with ur parents and tell them that u wanted to marry her and she also want that and for that if u kill us both then we are ready to die... Ask her too to say it in front of her parents...

No one can kill thr own daughter and if they don't agree over this too then tell them that u can even file an FIR that "they have kept ur GF as a prisoner in her own house and not allowing her to go out and she is enuff matured and more then 18 yrs of age but they are not allowing her to marry u."

May be things can change after hearing this. But if then too they are not ready go and file an FIR and ask ur GF to send a letter by any frnd to the police station stating this but make sure they do not come to know about her sending any letter to the police.

Hope things will change... But at first don't show anger and talk to them politely and with due respect.

See SD,

The thing is If you went alone or with any frnds they will think that U came for fighting with them...
So better take someone who will gv thm the impression that u came with a humble request and u genuinely love her...

If you dn't wanna take ur parents take some girl frnd of urs or hers or a common girl frnd of u both to her house...
With a guy they will try to do unacceptable things as they will not get the humble part of u... but seeing a Girl with u they will avoid any dramas or scenes...

Think of it and then tell me.. Is this OK with u...

Hi SD

Hope you are doing good. I understand your situation..Don't worry about your problem..But try to solve it ASAP. because your girl is all alone there and no one knows what she is going through..Go to her parents with any one of your uncles or any close one from your family if you are not interested in taking your parents and talk to them everything clearly,talk to her brother and express your love towards her and your respect to their family. Let them know that both of you will be very happy together .. Ask your girl  also to talk boldly and sincerely .. Don't become emotional .just be calm and express everything politely and bravely . You are not doing anything wrong . you love her truly then stop thinking all the negative points .. If they talk about caste let them know the limits of caste .. Tell them its only for society sake and you people can adjust with both the cultures and balance them.

If you can express your love , care and responsibility towards her and her family, any parents can accept. Don't be rude to them or don't blackmail them or do any nonsense . Just be sincere and i wish all good luck for your love ...

Take care SD